举办生日会之意

于阳历二零零七十二月九日指定为举杯同庆的一天----72大寿喜庆日! 身为子孙的我们也少不了增添场面的色彩, 来个翻转地球式的喧哗, 畅饮数杯红酒, 更少不了美味佳肴一一地承上.

除了吃喝玩乐之外, 能够与亲朋戚友积聚一堂, 维持联系是一种天伦之乐. 千金难买亲人情... 想见一见久违的亲友是否别来无恙. 甲方感情有了着落, 乙方留下不少岁月痕迹, 丙方依然故我, 丁方丁财两旺. 而我但愿不处于乙方的所在就好了, 女怕老来猪怕肥嘛 :>

高歌了世界名曲以后, 开始先由小辈的我们与亲爱的'阿嬷'一同把最美好, 最珍贵的一幕保存下来. 一直以来都大力排斥照相的寿星婆, 无可奈何得面对好几个被堪称为'记者'们拍个不休, 也只好照单全收 (笑得脸几乎都僵了.呵呵 "小的失礼!"), 真苦了你'阿嬷' 大人.

以下的效果还不赖, 阿嬷就是很着重仪容外表,所以诸位看后敬请高抬贵"口"---Shh....! 大恩不言谢啦 :~)

Malaysians should be educated?

Of late, I’ve came across some of the bad examples of Malaysian tourists when going abroad. I’d like to share the points of the writer about the annoying habits as follow:

• They talk loudly at tourist spots and hotels regardless of others around.

• They expect everyone to move away when they want to take photos.

• Malaysians are the only people who use umbrellas in the sun/rain. He (the writer) was poked three times. The umbrellas also block views.

• In the plane, they are not careful when taking things from the overhead compartment. One woman, while taking her bag, broke her plastic bottle and spilled water on his head.

• The toilets in the plane and elsewhere are always in shambles after they’ve use them.

• When it’s stated “don’t walk on the grass” or “don’t overtake the queue”, they still do.

• Where it clearly states “video/photography is prohibited”, they still use their cameras.

• Where it is clearly announced not to sit on ancient ruins nor touch them, the Malaysian tourists still do, little realizing the harm they do to old and fragile artifacts.

• They way Malaysians behave in dining halls is the worst he’s seen. They pile food on their plates which goes to waste as they can’t finish it. They stuff extra food and drinks in their huge bags. They have a nasty habit of spitting food bits on the dinner table rather than removing them gently from their mouths with a spoon.

From the above statement, no doubt we could see them happen all over the places in Malaysia. Hence, do bear in mind, if to go overseas in the days to come, not to recommit the same error as dictated earlier. Try to behave ourselves for the good impression sake.

依然故我

大病初癒,體力也漸漸恢復了.近些日子總算過得悠閑自在...

下月終將出國一游,特別喜歡選擇冬季時分出國.聽說這個冬天不太冷,會嗎?無論如何,它確實是我最喜愛的一季就是了.

近來把頭髮給剪斷,愿能隨之減掉三千四煩惱,簡直不可理喻!

新的一年即將到來,又是一個新的展望,人生還有好幾個十年,好好的充實生活同時精進自己,你準備好了嗎?:p

Working life

It had been a month ago since when the last post had been published. A plenty of occurences that I'd like to share in with my limited memory.

Before the final exam's arrival, a pile of exam papers need to be prepared and compiled them organisely. Haha...It's truly fun as I could experience the similar things as I've gone through during my secondary school life, the only different is the process has converted from 'Answer the Question' to 'Question the Answer' , isn't it sounds good? :>

During the final examination, each of us has to invigilate 3 hours non-stop according to the schedule, it's absolutely pethatic!! Out of 7 hours' working, I'd accomplished the task in merely 2 hours time. The rest of time i may use it to do my personal stuffs. It sounds easy and yet challenging.

Now the exam is over, it's the time for them to relieve their tension. I would grab the opportunity to play games with them, 'monopoly' definitely will be ranked on top of my list (even though it's a bit childish :p)...This is how my working life about.

美好的回忆--下篇

已好一段时间没在此留言,一来故我懒,二来故我忙. 续美好回忆上篇, 联想到一般好怀念的一群人(远在天边,近在"脑海里"). 现在的你们不知是否依然是昔日咱们认识的那副模样?留恋过去美好的所有所有...包括你们真心的对待! 万分感激,百般不舍. 再次说声'谢谢,爱你们噢!!' :p

此时此刻,心里唯有一个念头:"寄托现在,放远未来"! 也曾听说跟着感觉走或许是对自己慈悲的一种. "想做什么就大胆地去尝试吧!"多么熟悉的字眼,只可惜在我字典里却翻阅不到这一篇的记载. 可说是忧柔寡断抑或是顾虑重重,忧虑自然而然地产生了.理智的后遗症乎? 有些事情实在不能太过理智, 想得太多只会把事情复杂化使自己陷入困境. 最后是搞到心力交瘁，疲惫不堪，结果是苦不堪言, 那又何苦来哉? 你怎么说?

毕业至今虽仅相隔一个月的光景,然而对我而言犹如隔了好几个秋. 一个月后的今天再次返回校园, 感觉仍然熟悉但却又那么地陌生. 熟悉是环境;陌生是一张张不熟悉的脸孔.想起当年心里是充满憧憬地踏入象牙塔,记忆犹新!. 的确是人面不知何处去,桃花依旧笑春风…感慨万千啊!

第二天清晨, 看见人山人海的莘莘学子左顾右盼着学生巴士的到来...这一幕仿佛是昨日般的情景, 那种一见着巴士并一窝锋地冲向前去非要你争我夺,挤得一身臭汗不可. 早课固然是好, 但同时也得付出相当的'代价'...天啊! 总算事过境迁了,该是更换角色为旁观者的时刻了. 极可笑,亦过瘾.这种心态要不得啊...

年复一年, 年华老去, 若果盘问在下有何遗憾, 无可置疑的情感将居高榜首. 出此一言必然情有可原. 那种既期待又怕受伤害的心态就这样蹉跎至今! 古语有云"不孝有三:无后为大" 婚姻这回事实在无法等闲视之, 更何况是家中的独生女可谓势在必行! 宁可信奉随缘也不愿敷衍了事.深信爱情是一种冒险的游戏,唯有'春江水暖鸭先知'的恋爱男女方知利害攸关. 儿女私情微不足道, 把眼光放远一点也许山穷水尽疑无路, 柳暗花明又一村,一概皆大欢喜…不是吗?

美好的回忆--上篇

三个月受训时期已圆满结束. 再回首当时的情景仍然历历在目. 三个月期间虽忙得不可开交, 但日子总算过得充实同时更为我的人生增添色彩. 每逢周末的到来心情即刻如释重负, 只想好好地充电一番,来睡个大头觉!!

除此之外, 欢乐时光亦少不了. 悠闲的假日带着大夥儿一同四处去郊游,一起踏青去更是大快人心.还记得这一天070707特别的日子.凡走过必留下美好回忆! 以下是回忆的见证...

在此不忘提及一事:最让我欣喜,振奋人心的是竟然能有机会一次再一次地载着三五成群的人从马六甲郊游到柔佛东甲一带游山玩水,吃喝玩乐,走马看花,闲逛夜市.感觉一顶一棒!

来到古城,别忘了尝一尝当地美食有如本人最喜爱的鸡饭粒(*****鼎立推荐),姜汁豆花(****赞),沙爹(***不赖),面粉糕(***)等等...令人垂涎

这一路走来不易,可谓酸,甜,苦,辣一概尝尽!常言道"重要的不是结果,而是好好地享受每个过程,方能感受到(真)(善)(美)的真理".简单来说,任何事物若能以正确的人生观来看待,从中能让你体会到人生的大道理,领悟到'不经一事,不长一智'之根本意义.只因成功之路是由失败中磨练出来的. 说是易,做是难. 许多人就因失败都没敢去尝试,哪来成功的说法?无法跨出第一步,杵在原地踏步注定无法达成所想,所要及所愿. 谈何容易?! 有时候真希望自己的想法能简单一点,单纯一点,办起事来也能免除不必要的烦恼,多好! 难怪童年的岁月是最美好,梦寐以求地...


这里的生活虽没都市般繁华,其待人处事却是遥遥领先.有他人问津,嘘寒问暖真是雪中送炭!我们何德何能啊...感恩一般善解人意的学生们对我们疼爱有佳.同时感激上苍让我们感受到了福报.庆幸有了一般守护者常伴左右,日子再怎么辛苦也是值得.回想起一幕又一幕的相聚时光,禁不住泪水,按捺不住心中的喜悦,...是美好的回忆也!

The First(s) In My Life

4th May-The first day we reached the southern part of Malacca by the name of Jasin; despite it is located in a remote area and yet is full of tranquility.

13th May-A 'special day’of me and Happy Mother's Day to all the mothers throughout the world, of course the most memorable'dark day’for Malaysians that we so-called “DARURAT”

A number of students were celebrating the big day for me, their appearance touched me deeply. There was a pleasing sense of happiness for me and now I could still remember vividly in my mind.

16th May-The entire schools in Malaysia were celebrating the teacher’s day. This school is quite unique comparatively with the others because of its equally distribution of 3 main races which is made up of MCI besides the one and the only one special nationality that is Portuguese. As the year before, the school arranged a variety of activities such as gift-exchange, sports, martial arts, ‘joget’, singing, folk dance etc…

I was one of the performers of the day singing 2/3 solos on behalf of my colleagues on the stage. Huh, I have some fans right now man!! Hee..hee! I'm contented not due to the environment but the principals and the teachers there who are hospitality and have a sense of humor as well. Excellent!

26th May-A couple weeks of school holiday is started. My friends and I chose to have a 3days 2nights trip to National Park that we’ve planned formerly. There was a horrible occurrence happened just before we reached the chalet. 9 of us almost fainted and feel like to vomit all the way along a zigzag as well as a bumpy road (the situation lasted for an hour long). Terrible, horrible and vegetable indeed!! It is much worse than the road at Cameron Highland and Genting Highland. You guys must go and adventure yourself, let’s have a try! FUN!

1st day- late at 11pm hunting deep into the jungle. We stopped our pace and listened to the nature orchestra. Wow, full of excitement! Hah while everyone was deeply asleep, there was one of my roommates awake and heard as if there were the footsteps of the wild boar roaming around our room, ridiculous indeed.

2nd day-continue to have our jungle trekking, canopy walk (well-known for longest in the world) and a few hundred meters to the peak of hill…Luckily my stamina supported me to the top of Bukit Terisek. Lastly it came to the part that I’ve waited for so longboat shooting, whoever on the boat for sure will be drenched from top to toe…We all SYIOK-SYIOK SENDIRI, drenched—screamed—revenge to each other—drenched again!! We visited the primitive lodging with a whole-body wet. What I would be able to notice was 99% of the visitors are drenched thoroughly. I was wondering if those natives will take for granted that the people like us always in BBB look?! BBB stands for BASAH-BASAH BELAKA! :S

3a.m- the moment that full of thrills and spills that 4 of us fishing on the river bank very early in the morning. It was so frenzy! We traveled by motorboat along the river where it is surrounded by the jungle. The inky darkness of a moonless night made us tremble with fear yet excited. We did enjoy the scenery and the night view, though it's not really can be seen but u definitely could feel it with your peaceful soul.

3rd day- The slippery track caused me to fall down and my pants were covered in mud. A few hundred meters distance to reach the second last view of our trip, Gua Telinga. Again, it was the first-time experience to crawl along the stony cave. In the midst of it, you could see (with torchlight) a thousand of bats are hanging on the cave right above you (the distance is estimated 30cm from your head), if you’re good luck enough, you’d probably see some snakes accompany the bats there, I think I’m the lucky one! Fortunately the leech didn’t turn up for my entire trip.

It is a wonderful and suitable place to spend your holiday. We truly enjoy ourselves and somehow my friends and I realized that we were entirely free from trouble and worry during the trip. Now, we are heading for our next destination as our impending vacation. My Happy Holidays…Yahoo!

The End Is Near

Hmm…I’ve been missing this blog for a number of days. These few days I've been preparing for the last but not least exam paper. Meanwhile, I was busy packing up all the stuffs as I’m soon to leave my campus for my practical that lasts for 3 months long. Counting from now onwards it’s less than 24 hours to go. As a result, I’d probably leave this blog for a particular period as well. Gotta miss my friends, college-mates, lecturers, the conducive environment and my special corner for various activities :p . Lovely kiss and good bye…Not going to write any longer for this moment…make it as the shortest one…keke. Perhaps, you’ll see me in the next post with some updates of my life in Malacca and even more! Do light up the day with a smile
Have a nice day, my friend!

寻房记

数日前本人与一位系友到马六甲寻找房子。原先预定的房子听闻已被人家捷足先登了！有鉴于此，咱们唯有亲自出马盼能尽快解决纠缠多日之烦恼。带着疲惫的身躯于凌晨时分启程，事关前一天刚结束最后第二张试卷，于是大家约定考完试后到某处吃喝玩乐去。难得大伙儿聚集一堂，谈天说地，东西南北的畅谈没完没了，有点流连忘返的感觉，回到宿舍已是夜深人静的时刻。


大约近四小时的路程方能抵达目的地。这儿便是我们即将进行实习的地方，小镇我来也！好不容易到达第一站，那儿的房东待人处事无可奉告。。。只带着走马看花的心态，马马虎虎地观望了几眼，三十六计走为上计。

毕竟人生地不熟，想找个合适及中意的房子谈何容易。此时此刻只好碰碰运气了，再次联络上之前房子已出租的房东，我们约个地点会面。在艳阳高照下，我与系友汗流浃背地一步步穿梭陌生的街道。终于皇天不负苦心人，好不容易找到一个落脚之处，真是得来全不费工夫啊！承蒙老天爷成全!

这位房东与其太太为人随和，同时更尽足地主之谊邀咱们俩吃个家常便饭，招待甚为周到。这一餐虽普普通通，但背后的意义却很深重。它让我感受到在这尔欺吾诈，功利主义社会的另一端乃有人情味的存在。感动的心情非笔墨能形容，更何况仅有一面之缘，可谓难能可贵。这不是夸张式的用语，它的确是城市人遥不可及的。但愿人间处处有温情的所在。但愿。。但愿如此！


任务成功!!

Sharing

The first day of my final exam was started with the light and easy subject that I like the most, the Korean. Right after the test, I took my breakfast instantly (have been starving an hour ago).Hehe…Generally I have no appetite to take much food very early in the morning. However I would definitely not skip the breakfast with merely my empty stomach though.

The end of the Korean lecture (the final lecture throughout 4 years of life in the campus)

The next destination was my carrel room, spend most of my time there to have a nap, studying, surfing net and even eating but rarely to do so since it is strictly forbidden, shhh…!. I don’t mind to stay under an extraordinary low temperature where your limbs would probably be frozen rather than a stuffy room at the hostel especially in the afternoon. The moment I stepped into the room, a lecturer cum a supervisor of the demonstrators/tutors called me up for a sharing session with her supervisor from U.K. Since I’m one of the demonstrators out there, I have no any other choices but to attend for it (not so reluctantly la). In fact, it’s the golden opportunity to meet a professional from overseas, furthermore he is my supervisor’s supervisor = super supervisor (sounds peculiar! :-p).

A pretty arrangement in sequence of order!! Fond remembrance!
A shot with Scottish professor and DR.Isthri, my supervisor

The seminar took about an hour to come to an end. A meaningful sharing which was very pleasing to all of us! Yeah~ finally this is my desired session when we are being served with some refreshment, yummy! Feel so good! Hah, the second helping for my breakfast of the day! Look forward to have the session again. Right here waiting for it to come…^_^

Chinese Or Malaysian?

Few days ago after the Korean lecture, as usual I’d have my lunch at the nearby café where it will be loaded with foreign students now and then. There was a girl sitting right in front of me with a good, fair complexion and of course the lure of beauty attracted me to set my sights on her. By the way, she is a Muslim as she wore the “tudung” covered all around her head. The questions popped up in my mind “Is she Iran?”, “Is she Chinese or Malay?” and etc.

While I was thinking, I’ve caught her gazing at me for times…”Am I annoyed or frustrated her”, I asked myself repeatedly. By the time she was about to leave, this was the right time that I could have a closer look at her…keke. I plugged up my courage to have a glance for this belle clearly. Somehow she smiled to me and that’s how our conversation going on. She commenced by asking my nationality; anyway I would be able to guess at her answer. She addressed that my appearance seem rather more like a Chinese than as a Malaysian. Basically, she is not the only person to state so. In fact, she is a postgraduate from China taking the equivalent course as I do. Such a coincident man! Now only I realized there are quite a number of students from China in my campus as well.

The most possibility for the ‘Chinese-effect’ could be the types of complexion or just simply due to the significant shape of the face (standardized in China especially). For me I’d rather choose the latter one instead…:p It’s hardly to find the ‘standardized- Chinese-face’ among my friends and even relatives as I can dictate!! Except one of my cousin who is in U.S for the time being, we really look alike :)

Either to be a Chinese or a Malaysian is not a big deal; the nationality means to distinguish the people of geographical distribution throughout the world. The most vital part in my life is to being myself…live with no regret, try to get rid of sorrow and on top of that is to give life a moment of joyous!!

New born of myblog

This is the first blog of mine that I have ever written so far. Let me begin by telling you more of me… I’m talkative and extroverted (in terms of socializing) , however I love serenity whenever I need a place to refresh my mind after a pile of work or even having ups and downs once in a while, it’s human’s nature throughout the life, isn’t it?

It’s no longer for me to experience the student life which will end soon; in fact it’s less than 2 months counting from now onwards. I’m wondering what should I contemplate to be once I’ve graduated. It gonna be a new phase in my life. There are 2 options actually for me to choose, either to pursue my degree or to get into the midst of a long career…otherwise as one of my friends said there’s a 3rd probability which is to get marry loh…haha! Regarding to this, definitely I would say ‘no’ for the time being.. hehe. Time would prove itself when it’s at the right time as well as the right place. It’s all in how you look at it!

Despite one’s counsel could be as reference, the final decision is on my own, though. It’s hard to reach a consensus as points of difference exist. Hence, it’s time for me to learn how to give and take in order to compromise especially to those whom I am at most concern. However, that is another story.

Being a demo since last semester, I’ve found the contentment and derived great pleasure from it as well. Thus it has more or less induced me to change my mindset that teaching is just monotonous and lifeless. On the contrary, it could be interesting provided you have the passion and willing to put in your hard effort. So fundamentally, life could be anything we want. If you think you can, you CAN!! That’s how people used to impact others and so will I.

-To be continued-

A Trip To Hanguk

Suddenly think of sharing a memorable trip to Korea at the end of last year. It was the first time that i had ever been to journey into far regions. I went with my aunt and a cousin since my parents were occupying with their affairs. What a waste!! Sigh...Anyhow, my parents have promised to travel abroad with me once I’ve accomplished my studies. Would it come true? Hopefully (my dear) will keep their promise

All right! Here we go. Firstly it took about nearly 5 hours to reach the Incheon International Airport. It was 6:00am early in the morning. The temperature was about 2 degree Celsius, somehow contrary to my expectation. The eight-day-trip brought back sweet memories. The only drawback was a few kilos’ luggage which being transferred from time to time for different locations. Luckily, the pleasant cool at the moment made me quite comfortable; it didn’t seem to be a burden for me to carry two pieces of luggage all the way.

Not long ago, I caught up in the Korean ancient drama entitled “Dae Jang Guem”. The story line was about the concubines of an emperor who strive desperately for fame and wealth. I’ve never thought of visiting a place such as the scene of the play where our first destination was located, the king’s palace. As I fairly go in for photography, for sure the digi-cam would be following me wherever I go. Finally I realized that I’ve used up 4 memory sticks with the capacity of 4GB in the sum throughout the trip. Hah, probably u guys might think that there’s gonna be some thousand of pictures I’ve taken at that moment huh?!

Up to now, I still remember vividly one of the places we have been to. The second flight we took was approximately 45 minutes to reach the destination. It is an extraordinary island namely ‘JejuDo’ in Korean. The Jeju Island is very similar to the Hawaiian Islands in the United State. The courier once told us it is one of the top honeymoon destinations for Korean newlyweds. By the way, there were three Malaysian newly married couples during the trip, sounds great man!! I’m wondering…if there is an opportunity to travel there again, I wish I may go with my beloved instead haha…(the word “may” implies the uncertainty of me to get one and still I am)

Back to here again, I would like to say the Korean food is much more different as compared to a local flavor, cuisine and the like. At first, I was very longing for “KIMCHI” indeed. Among those Korean foods, it is top on my list of priorities. Though it tasted good and yet I gave up eventually. Can u imagine each meal will be served with “KIMCHI” as side dishes (in fact it’s the main course for the Korean). Don’t ever think that the chili sauce must be spicy all the time. As far as I know, the Koreans do not seem like the Malaysians to have a strong taste in their food.

In the meantime, I will never forget to mention the experience of skiing. At one point there was an expertise knocked me down without my notice. At that time, I was learning to skate over the ice….Oh no!! I was incredibly helpless at then. Hoping that the ‘gentleman’ (expertise) would gave me his hand, but he just sneaked away instead. I had a terrible pain after the incident. Despite the pain, my passion for skiing will never subside. Finally, I’ve mastered the skill of skiing and skated as much as 15 times continuously. Isn’t it fun? For me absolutely YES!! Hmm…Think of going there once again. My Wonderful Trip!! (HANGUK RE CHOAHEYO!!)

生活写实

本人部落阁再度填满了个人意见及感言。主要原因既是能把以往种种经历写下之余，盼今日的故事能成为明日美好的回忆！哪怕是好。。是坏，重要的不是结果而是感受其过程，从中增长智慧，体验生活。

有人说人生就是一场演不完的戏, 对我而言, 感同身受。有悲必有喜, 有离必有合, 悲欢离合是人生的必经之路。有的时候还真傻得可爱或是可哀自个儿亦搞不清楚状况。在难过时刻频频提醒自己：耐一下很快就会过去，悲伤的离去意味着喜悦的到来。就这样地耐了过去。。。看来是自我安慰吧！

提及离乡背井确实忧喜参半。故本人来自小康之家，自小皆在父母呵护下长大，忧则甚少离开双亲可说是形影不离，因此而分隔两地，不难过才怪；喜则能够独立自主，坦言一直很渴望独居在外，好让自己接受新考验，开阔新视野也是不错的尝试呀！但事实并非如此，差强人意啊！哀哉！哀哉！无论如何，随遇而安即好。既来之，则安之咯！重审自我安慰的方式。。

农历清明节将至，正是华人重大日子之一。顿时让我回想起“清明时节雨纷纷，路上行人欲断魂” 的心情写照。近几年来无法回乡扫墓，深感遗憾。再说今年是我爷爷往生之首次拜祭仪式，然而却因本人某某制定计划非得完成不可，无法参与此行，可谓身不由己！(爷爷啊，敬请原谅‘身在江湖’ 的我唷) ！缅怀昔日拥有爷爷的疼爱，分享历史的回顾。如今仍深深烙在我心深处！永别了。。。

“您的不告而别
视为缘起缘灭
与其痛哭哽咽
不如珍惜一切
愿吾爱的爷爷
永存极乐世界”

忆童年

翻阅小时候的照片之际，联想年幼时的点点滴滴。印象中似乎带有丁点儿模糊；却又是那么真实地荡漾在脑海里，努力地回到我的寻梦园。想着。。想着。。连贯性的故事就在我发白日梦的同时形成了！

童年回忆录(1)
每当傍晚时分，必到邻家院子报到去。只因那儿有位和蔼可亲的老婆婆，咱们一同荡秋千，特别是谈起她那<<当年的我>>，简直让我陶醉其中！久而久之已成了一种习惯，它占据了我童年生活的一部份！就因此促使我与年老长辈们特别的投契，依然持续至今。好喜欢那种感觉噢，不知那位老婆婆是否尚在人间？(若是。。。那该称为“人瑞”了吧) 。

童年回忆录(2)
捉泥鳅，抛石子，捉迷藏，溜冰，跷跷板等一概是小时的玩意儿。此一时，彼一时现今儿童早已被PS，VCD，心算，补习班什么的。。取而代之。是福? 是祸? 见仁见智。说起儿时玩伴该嫁的嫁，娶的娶；我依然是我，唯一改变的是年龄的增长，显示岁月不留人的真谛。坦然接受生命的一切，对我而言持有赤子之心亦不见得是一件坏事 (“天公疼憨人”啊！！)

童年回忆录(3)
在家中，除了妈咪及爹地，最疼爱我的莫过于爷爷大人也！每每午餐时间一到，爷爷就以他那强而有力的双手把我抱起。接着我凭着一首儿歌走天涯，嘴里不停地哼著；骑在爷爷的背上，一步一步朝向饭桌的位置去。以一首<往事只能回味>词之意境来描绘此境再适合不过。

如今，让我深深地体会到：人总得学习着长大。被呵护固然是好，不能因此而杵在那儿做个温室里的一朵小花。在面对人生的抉择当中，难免会出现棘手的绊脚石。无论如何，勇于尝试，持着正念的人生观，不要轻言放弃，相信一切会因此迎刃而解(唯一的筹码是不为日后留下遗憾)。这何尝不是一个极好的考验? 任何人都无法左右你的人生，好与坏仅一念之差。作出明智之举！愿我如是。。阿弥陀佛！合十！